In the sun-drenched streets of Los Angeles, there is a persistent narrative that “estate planning” is a luxury reserved for the ultra-wealthy or the elderly. As a real estate agent specializing in probate and trust sales, I see the fallout of this misconception every single day. The truth is, if you own a home in Southern California, the state likely considers you “rich” enough to subject your family to a lengthy, expensive probate process if you don’t have a plan in place.
Estate planning isn’t just about who gets your vintage record collection or your house in Silver Lake; it’s about maintaining control over your life, your health, and your family’s future when you can no longer speak for yourself.
The $180,000 Threshold: The Reality of California Probate

Many people believe they can “skip” the lawyer because their estate isn’t that big. In California, the limit for a “small estate” (one that can avoid a formal probate process) is roughly $184,500.
Consider the math: If you own even a modest condo in Los Angeles, your estate is already well above that threshold. Without a trust, your heirs will be forced into the court system, where:
- Fees are high: Probate fees are set by statute and can eat up a significant portion of the inheritance.
- Calendars are packed: LA County courts are notoriously impacted. It is common for judges to juggle 35 cases in a single morning, giving each family only a few minutes of their time.
- Privacy is lost: Probate is a public process; a trust keeps your family’s business private.
Not Just for Seniors: The “Capacity” Conversation
One of the most vital aspects of estate planning has nothing to do with death—it has to do with incapacity. If you are 18 or older, you are a legal adult. This means if you are in a car accident or suffer a medical emergency that leaves you in a coma, your parents or spouse may not have the automatic right to make medical or financial decisions for you without a court order.
By executing a few key documents, you decide who is in charge:
- Advanced Healthcare Directive: Appoints a “proxy” to make medical decisions.
- Durable Power of Attorney: Allows someone to manage your finances (pay your mortgage, access bank accounts) if you cannot.
Without these, your family might be forced to seek a conservatorship, a court process that can be restrictive, expensive, and emotionally draining.
Peace of Mind for Parents: Naming Guardians
For those of us with children, estate planning is the ultimate act of protection. If the unthinkable happens and both parents are gone, who decides where your children go?
- With a plan: You name the legal guardians who will raise your kids.
- Without a plan: You leave it up to a judge who doesn’t know you or your family. In the absence of your clear voice, family “infighting” can erupt, leading to a traumatic legal battle over who “should” have been named.
🛠️ The “Design” Process: Overcoming Family Challenges
When you finally sit down to create your plan, it shouldn’t feel like a cold transaction. It’s a brainstorming session—a “design meeting”—where you tackle your specific pain points:
- Blended Families: How do you ensure kids from a prior marriage are protected while still providing for a current spouse?
- Disinheritance: If you need to distribute assets unevenly or disinherit someone entirely, specific legal measures must be put in place to ensure those wishes are binding.
- Practicality: A plan is only good if it can be easily administered. Your attorney’s role is to combine your goals with a practical approach that won’t leave your successor trustee confused.

Essential Takeaways: The Estate Planning Checklist
- âś… Start at 18: Once you are a legal adult, you need at least basic capacity documents.
- âś… Ignore the “Rich” Label: If you own real estate in California, you need a trust to avoid probate.
- âś… Peace of Mind > Fear: Talking about the “worst-case scenario” makes it less scary. Once the decisions are made, you can live your life with more freedom.
- âś… Control Your Legacy: The more planning you do, the more control you have. The less you do, the more you leave to a judge.
- ✅ Address Cognitive Health: Conditions like Alzheimer’s or dementia make early planning essential before legal capacity is lost.
Notable Quote:
“Estate planning isn’t just for rich people or seniors; if you are 18 or older, you deserve the peace of mind that comes with deciding who speaks for you when you can’t.”
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DISCLAIMER: The Probate Realtor® Matias Baker Masucci is a licensed real estate broker in California, DRE # 02054763. Any legal information provided is for informational purposes only and NOT to provide legal advice. Contact an attorney to obtain advice on any specific legal issue or problem. We make no guarantees as to the accuracy of any information.















